Sex Toys

Posted: 2020-06-22

9 Non-Penetrative Sex Toys In Case That’s Not Your Thing

Ain't no shame in loving external sensations, and here's a great selection to get you there.

Model holding red vibrator to display tongue-like detail

1. A palm-sized vibrator with a tongue that can make nine different vibration and licking motions, meaning it can lick you from your head to your toes.

Promising review: "Bought cause my boyfriend sucks at this Loved it! I like a strong vibration and even the first setting was too powerful, which is the lowest one lol. The tongue is soft, def feels like the real thing to me. Bad reviews saying it’s too rough are probably because they have sensitive lady bits. I don’t. You can add lube but I don’t need to. My boyfriend is garbage at giving head and I was sick of it LOL. Good luck to him getting any now when I can just use this 😂" — Khadijah Gay

Buy on Amazon - $33.99

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2. An adorable (and waterproof) bullet vibrator with 10 settings and a discreet design, in case you like to take your ~O~ with you wherever you go.

Promising review: "BAM! $20 MAKE YA HOLLER! Aahhh... Ive got two... The battery isnt the best. So get 2 instead of 1. Definitely worth the $20! Makes long car rides tolerable and rainy nights unforgettable! Seriously... Haha" — Miss.anthropist

Buy on Amazon - $10.28

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3. With over 31,000 5-⭐️ ratings from viewers, the Satisfyer Pro 2 is a submersible toy that uses 11 pulsating suction intensities for nondirect clitoral stimulation.

Promising review: "I cried because it’s changed my life. Ok. Real talk. I NEVER write reviews. But it was reviews I read that led me to purchase this mystical device and now I feel like I have to share to encourage others. I have always had an incredibly difficult time reaching completion. Sometimes it can take my hours with high tech vibes and even then no guarantees. In top of what is already a difficult thing for me I’m also on some meds that kill sex drive. My partner and I are on year 5 of our relationship and it’s always been a source of frustration and guilt that my participation is done solely for him as I can count on one hand the amount of time... in 5 years...that I have reached completion together. I had tried so many different things and was at the end of my emotional rope thinking I’m going to be participating in sex I don’t enjoy (through no fault of his skill or effort) for the rest of my life. Fast forward to this device. I honestly didn’t know what to think when I inboxed it. Probably the first time I have ever read instructions on a sex toy. But I swear to all that is holy I finished two, TWO, back to back O’s in under 20 minutes. Which for me is a GD miracle. Then went on to a 3rd while participating in the deed through some creative positioning. I think I might still be a little lightheaded. I cried and then decided to write this review. For any woman who is out there suffering and has tried it all please buy this. I know it’s changed my life in one night and saved my marriage from the slow death of intimacy." — Samantha Cole

Buy on Amazon - $39.95

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4. The OG Magic Wand that's been delivering mind-blowing orgasms to loyal users for decades with two rumbly speeds and a simple single switch. If you're going to cancel your plans to enjoy some me-time, you better do it big.

Promising review: "Magic wand exploded Omg I absolutely love my magic wand until it just exploded while I was using it. It made a loud pop sounds and I saw a big spark through my blankets. It even burnt my sheet. 😭Please send me a new one that doesn’t want to kill my tulip!" — Julie Mancuso

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5. A powerful miniature wand vibrator created with supple silicone for a soft-touch feel and 20 functions to take you right to that blissful, blurry edge.

Promising review: "Sanded off my june bug Let me start off by saying WOW! Don’t let this bad boy fool you, though it is small in nature it packs the strength of a power drill. Shocked, terrified, impressed. These are the emotions I went through when test driving this pleasure stick. I didn’t fully understand the strength adjustment and went full force right off the bat, and let me tell you, I almost sanded off my June bug. Have you ever been in the car, strolling down the highway, and hit the rumble strip and feel a little something something in your nether regions? Imagine that but multiple it by 100. I was shocked, my lady bits were shocked, but my roommates didn’t hear a thing. Let’s just say this isn’t your grandmas vibrator!" — Amazon Customer

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6. The Iroha Temari vibrator is small enough to fit in the palm of your hand, making it easy to use for external stimulation. It has four different vibrating speeds and two different patterns, so you can find the perfect setting for your needs.

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7. The Tulips vibrator by Sweet Vibrations is designed to caress your clit with its two lips and provide powerful vibrations.

Promising review: "Great Affordable Vibrator with Lifetime Guarantee Bought this vibrator a little under a year ago for use with a partner. I liked the packaging and instructions. It's easy to clean and I use the storage bag it came with. Charging is easy once you figure out how to push the charger in (I thought I was breaking it at first). As other reviewers mentioned the 'lips' are a bit firm which can be uncomfortable, but using lubricant negates that issue. There is good variation between levels of vibration intensity for different users/occasions, it can get a loud with the higher settings. Mine did start to rapidly lose power despite being fully charged and I reached out to customer service who got back to me within minutes to offer a free replacement.Overall I would recommend this vibrator." — Maddie

Buy on Amazon - $54.99

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8. A cock ring equipped with a textured vibrating pad to stimulate the clit or balls lets you pick what gives you pleasure.

Promising review: "I ended up having an amazing orgasm on level four This arrived in the mail yesterday. I got it charged up right away. After lubing up my husband and putting on the ring I mounted him. Started on the lowest setting and started feeling the excitement right away. I ended up having an amazing orgasm on level four. I find that clitoral stimulation mind blowing. After he fell asleep I had to use the vibrator again to fall asleep. This little toy is a bit of heaven!" — MsLing

Buy on Amazon - $36.66

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9. The vibrating stroker is perfect for penis-packing pleasure enthusiasts who want to experiment with different vibration modes. It's also waterproof, so you can take it with you anywhere.

Promising review: "Revolutionary experience... I will say, my first time I wasn't super impressed, I was like... ok... it gets the job done but not sure it's for me... But then by the 3rd or 4th time I used it, it clicked, the deep vibrations that you can kind of adjust where you apply the pressure is pretty insane, it gives a feeling I've never experienced before and I've been finding myself using it almost every time I have some alone time. Little tip, after round 1, try a round 2 by "traditional" means and the sensation from the vibrations provides a little numbness and it feels amazing. I have used with my partner as well, she has had success with it, but prefers more traditional female shapes." — Mayonaise

Buy on Amazon - $145.00

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